Category: Entrepreneurship

Choose an Opponent

Recently I have been doing some projects very comfortably. Then one day someone started doing something similar.


Internal thoughts of Noah: “Mother Fer, Beep, Expletive, C*ck Balls, Sh**, Ass. What am I going to do?”

Then I realized I need an opponent and next time I am going to pro-actively go find one. They don’t even need to realize they are your opponent.

For example, sometimes at the gym there was someone next to me on the treadmill, I said to myself that I would stay longer on the treadmill no matter what. After they left I did a HUGE arm pump, raised the roof and continued my running.

Getting an opponent pushes you to succeed and makes me at least more paranoid not to lose. I think it depends on the person but I guess the question to ask yourself if, “are you too comfortable?”

In the great words I hope you can use from Mortal Combat one day “FINISH HIM!”

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17 Responses to “Choose an Opponent”

  • Scott Hurff
    July 18th, 2007
    10:36 am

    So true. Complacency creeps up on you and before you know it, you’re fat and happy. To lamely quote Jim Collins (who probably quoted someone else), “don’t let good become the enemy of great.”

  • Marianne
    July 18th, 2007
    11:15 am

    I refuse to stop on the elliptical until the 2 people on either side of me leave first. Then I say to myself “conquered & destroyed!” I’ve carried this into my work/social life as well, except I do a dance.

    p.s. It’s Mortal Kombat ;-)

  • Noah Everett
    July 18th, 2007
    12:18 pm

    This is one my favorite posts from you now.

  • Adam
    July 18th, 2007
    12:30 pm

    Hey Noah, on the surface I agree with what you’re saying in this post (in fact, I think Tim Ferriss gave a very similar answer when I asked him how he measures performance during the Community Next conference). But…I’m still undecided on whether picking a random competitor is a good move (ie: the next guy on the treadmill). I think it might be better to compete with internal goals rather than just a random external competitor who may or may not have similar targets to yours.

    ps - enjoyed watching your video clip of the talk you gave at Berkeley…inspiring.

  • Burkey
    July 18th, 2007
    1:20 pm

    I don’t know how the hell I found your blog, but right the eff on! Good stuff. : ) Scott

  • Rebecca Thorman
    July 18th, 2007
    1:32 pm

    I laughed out loud about the gym example. I’ve definitely done that. Fabulous thinking to carry the idea throughout the rest of your life!

  • JW
    July 18th, 2007
    3:28 pm

    Competition definitely goes both ways. I’d prefer not to have any competition, but in any situation, and especially on the internet, success breeds a slew of copycats.

    Its annoying, but you know your successful when others try to be like you. “Imitation’s the most sincere form of flattery”

    And yes, it definitely gives you a drive to push harder. The secret to longterm success for any website is to do things that can’t be replicated overnight. This means user generated content (like this comment I’m writing), proprietary tools, and SERP rankings.

  • atish
    July 18th, 2007
    4:34 pm

    Kagan Wins. Fatality

  • Jason H.
    July 18th, 2007
    7:53 pm

    Don’t u remember from your Intel days–Only the Paranoid Survive!

  • Mo Kakwan
    July 18th, 2007
    10:16 pm

    Somtimes you get effed in the aye like that one time that steven segal got up infront of a crowd and said “I CHALLANGE ANYONE IN THIS CROWD WHO THINKS THEY CAN BEAT ME UP TO A FIGHT!” … an 80 year old boxer ended up wiping the floor with his punk ass.

    Moral of the story, don’t fight old men… that were boxers… or something.

  • Noah Kagan
    July 18th, 2007
    11:57 pm

    Mortal Kombat, my bad.

    I am paranoid like crazy. Drives me to work much harder.

    Atish loses, in ping-pong

    You all should compete for top commenters on okdork

  • Will
    July 19th, 2007
    11:04 am

    Noah,
    This does not surprise me one bit, it is your genetic make up, it is what makes you…you.

    BTW, is the competition Wesabe? I have been seeing a lot of write ups on them lately, when is Mint launching?

    Will

  • Noah Kagan
    July 19th, 2007
    11:11 am

    Will,

    Call me and will talk about. # is 510 866 Noah

  • dave mcclure
    July 25th, 2007
    9:47 am

    remind me not to work out next to you at the gym ;)

    - dave “old & creaky knees” mcclure


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  • Barney Davey
    August 7th, 2007
    10:50 am

    I blog about the art business. As with many others, it is rampant with knockoffs. This is a constant thorn in the side of creatives who work hard to produce something original only to see a wave of look alike work follow any success they have.

    Once any legal means has been put to use, the best thing artists coudl do would be to turn the dial on the treadmill and channel their frustration into creative energy using the slings and arrows of knockoff competitors to drive them to new heights.

  • karen
    August 19th, 2007
    8:48 am

    Great post, as always. I too laughed, out loud, about the comment of ‘winning the race’ at the gym. :)

    Adam and I are thinking along the same lines of sometimes it’s better to have internal goals that you select as your opponent. I often set my work goals a lot higher than what others do (it’s that damn perfectionist living inside of me…) So often, others don’t challenge me enough so I have to challenge myself.

    I am definitely in the lead for top comments, at least for August. What’s the all time goal? I need something to challenge me a bit…

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