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		<title>By: karen</title>
		<link>http://okdork.com/2006/10/25/the-paycheck-vs-the-life/comment-page-1/#comment-140509</link>
		<dc:creator>karen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 02:13:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My dream was to become a dancer, but the bad knees, short height and lack of intensive dance training as a child held me back.  This doesn&#039;t mean that I don&#039;t dance--it&#039;s just either around the house or on amateur night. ;)   As Ray said, I have found a way to still enjoy it, even if it&#039;s not what brings in the paycheck.

Money doesn&#039;t bring happiness...doing what you love and enjoy does.  Sometimes it just takes a while to figure that out.  I think people often get discouraged when &#039;figuring it out&#039; doesn&#039;t come easy, thus the focus turns to money--which should make everyone happy, right?

No matter what I&#039;m doing, I try to make a difference with those I come into contact with.  I truly find happiness in going above and beyond to help others.  I hope all of you are &#039;figuring it out&#039; and are happy in what you do!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My dream was to become a dancer, but the bad knees, short height and lack of intensive dance training as a child held me back.  This doesn&#8217;t mean that I don&#8217;t dance&#8211;it&#8217;s just either around the house or on amateur night. <img src='http://okdork.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />    As Ray said, I have found a way to still enjoy it, even if it&#8217;s not what brings in the paycheck.</p>
<p>Money doesn&#8217;t bring happiness&#8230;doing what you love and enjoy does.  Sometimes it just takes a while to figure that out.  I think people often get discouraged when &#8216;figuring it out&#8217; doesn&#8217;t come easy, thus the focus turns to money&#8211;which should make everyone happy, right?</p>
<p>No matter what I&#8217;m doing, I try to make a difference with those I come into contact with.  I truly find happiness in going above and beyond to help others.  I hope all of you are &#8216;figuring it out&#8217; and are happy in what you do!</p>
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		<title>By: saving advice</title>
		<link>http://okdork.com/2006/10/25/the-paycheck-vs-the-life/comment-page-1/#comment-13850</link>
		<dc:creator>saving advice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Nov 2006 08:30:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you can&#039;t say you&#039;d be satisfied if you died right now, then it&#039;s simply a process of sitting down and figuring out what would make you satisfied. There is your new goal...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you can&#8217;t say you&#8217;d be satisfied if you died right now, then it&#8217;s simply a process of sitting down and figuring out what would make you satisfied. There is your new goal&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Drew McLellan</title>
		<link>http://okdork.com/2006/10/25/the-paycheck-vs-the-life/comment-page-1/#comment-13528</link>
		<dc:creator>Drew McLellan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Oct 2006 00:25:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Since when did we lead two separate lives -- our work and the rest of the day?  While I am all for the philosophy of &quot;live your bliss&quot; life is about balance.

I think Guru has it right -- figure out at the core, who you are and what you&#039;re about.  Then, whether you are digging ditches in the swealtering heat or making 3 point shots in front of a screaming crowd -- life is good.  

Should you leave a legacy -- heck yes.  But that doesn&#039;t have to be tied to the title on your business card. 

Should you live with passion -- heck yes.  But that doesn&#039;t mean the world has to envy (or even understand) your career choice.

Should you with with your values in constant sight -- heck yes.  But, that&#039;s not a 9-5 deal.

If you have a dream job, should you chase it?  You bet.  But for some people, their life&#039;s obligations demand they chase it while still holding onto the status quo.  Others can set off, without a care in the world, and chase it down.

I think there is a fallacy worth calling out in this conversation.  ANY job is still work.  There are still days, no matter how much you love your career or the results of it, that you&#039;d rather stay in bed or call in well.  That&#039; human nature.

So why not find out what your passion is and make sure you weave it into your being, not your career?

Best,


Drew</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since when did we lead two separate lives &#8212; our work and the rest of the day?  While I am all for the philosophy of &#8220;live your bliss&#8221; life is about balance.</p>
<p>I think Guru has it right &#8212; figure out at the core, who you are and what you&#8217;re about.  Then, whether you are digging ditches in the swealtering heat or making 3 point shots in front of a screaming crowd &#8212; life is good.  </p>
<p>Should you leave a legacy &#8212; heck yes.  But that doesn&#8217;t have to be tied to the title on your business card. </p>
<p>Should you live with passion &#8212; heck yes.  But that doesn&#8217;t mean the world has to envy (or even understand) your career choice.</p>
<p>Should you with with your values in constant sight &#8212; heck yes.  But, that&#8217;s not a 9-5 deal.</p>
<p>If you have a dream job, should you chase it?  You bet.  But for some people, their life&#8217;s obligations demand they chase it while still holding onto the status quo.  Others can set off, without a care in the world, and chase it down.</p>
<p>I think there is a fallacy worth calling out in this conversation.  ANY job is still work.  There are still days, no matter how much you love your career or the results of it, that you&#8217;d rather stay in bed or call in well.  That&#8217; human nature.</p>
<p>So why not find out what your passion is and make sure you weave it into your being, not your career?</p>
<p>Best,</p>
<p>Drew</p>
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		<title>By: Ray Dotson</title>
		<link>http://okdork.com/2006/10/25/the-paycheck-vs-the-life/comment-page-1/#comment-13408</link>
		<dc:creator>Ray Dotson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Oct 2006 11:58:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m late to the party again, but I have to agree with Mehul. If you&#039;re killing yourself just for a paycheck, life sucks. I&#039;m all for following your passions and doing what you at least like. I think you can at the very least make a decent living doing something that has to do with what you love. 

For instance, if you love baseball, but can&#039;t play professionally, maybe you can be involved in coaching, announcing games, back office stuff, training, sports medicine or even baseball card trading. If it&#039;s not the exact thing, it can be something peripheral. You may not make a million bucks at it, but you can most likely make a living.

On the other hand, I know from long experience that if you spend your life chasing the buck, doing what other people expect you to do to make a living or a career, you&#039;re in for a hard time. You definitely have to work hard to get anything you really want, but make it something you do actually want.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m late to the party again, but I have to agree with Mehul. If you&#8217;re killing yourself just for a paycheck, life sucks. I&#8217;m all for following your passions and doing what you at least like. I think you can at the very least make a decent living doing something that has to do with what you love. </p>
<p>For instance, if you love baseball, but can&#8217;t play professionally, maybe you can be involved in coaching, announcing games, back office stuff, training, sports medicine or even baseball card trading. If it&#8217;s not the exact thing, it can be something peripheral. You may not make a million bucks at it, but you can most likely make a living.</p>
<p>On the other hand, I know from long experience that if you spend your life chasing the buck, doing what other people expect you to do to make a living or a career, you&#8217;re in for a hard time. You definitely have to work hard to get anything you really want, but make it something you do actually want.</p>
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		<title>By: Mehul Patel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mehul Patel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Oct 2006 16:01:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Make Meaning, follow ur passion, do what u love, or do what u know the best, rest is Automatic :)

Working just for pay checks no matter what the obligations are will put u in a SAD never ending loop, take a break, seek advice from trusted friends and most Imp thing Take RISK (this does not apply to Gamling, as Gambling is not a risk its sucide) :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Make Meaning, follow ur passion, do what u love, or do what u know the best, rest is Automatic <img src='http://okdork.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Working just for pay checks no matter what the obligations are will put u in a SAD never ending loop, take a break, seek advice from trusted friends and most Imp thing Take RISK (this does not apply to Gamling, as Gambling is not a risk its sucide) <img src='http://okdork.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Dave Morin</title>
		<link>http://okdork.com/2006/10/25/the-paycheck-vs-the-life/comment-page-1/#comment-13195</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave Morin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Oct 2006 04:43:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Life&#039;s only short once.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Life&#8217;s only short once.</p>
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		<title>By: Christel</title>
		<link>http://okdork.com/2006/10/25/the-paycheck-vs-the-life/comment-page-1/#comment-13121</link>
		<dc:creator>Christel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Oct 2006 13:55:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Meaning over money. Simple as that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Meaning over money. Simple as that.</p>
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		<title>By: SenseiOfInvestment</title>
		<link>http://okdork.com/2006/10/25/the-paycheck-vs-the-life/comment-page-1/#comment-13015</link>
		<dc:creator>SenseiOfInvestment</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Oct 2006 15:04:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I also agree that people expect things for free...

Does this mean that to some degree we all have a little sense of selfishness?  Yes and no.  Yes, because who wouldn&#039;t want to indulge in little selfishness for them selves.  BUT, it is when these selfish choices/actions involve/affect other people that are unbeknown to this one sided investment, that this temporary expectation of &quot;free&quot; is degraded.

It is important to surround yourself with people that are genuinely and sincerely interested in each other, a mutual investment.  You know, making every difference make a difference...I like sharing, but in life there are those that you can only try to reach and then you have to accept that they are ok with their situation...

For example:

I met a person in my past that was extremely passionate about people and learning about them and their surroundings.  They had great drive, great confidence, and great ability to make things happen.  I always found this person interesting because of their perspectives and principles on and about life.  But as life does, there were some situations that tested their ability to be honest, happy, and fulfilled.  I the Guru, gave advice, gave support, and even gave a shoulder to cry on.  You would think they would have understood the value of what presented itself to them?  No, this viscous cycle continued well on into other aspects of their life, seeping into the things that made them tick as that once honest, happy, and fulfilled person I highly respected.  It was not that I didn&#039;t respect them for who they were, but more for what they became.  And to think that this person continues this cycle with the people, places, and things they so call love...

Arigato,
Sensei</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I also agree that people expect things for free&#8230;</p>
<p>Does this mean that to some degree we all have a little sense of selfishness?  Yes and no.  Yes, because who wouldn&#8217;t want to indulge in little selfishness for them selves.  BUT, it is when these selfish choices/actions involve/affect other people that are unbeknown to this one sided investment, that this temporary expectation of &#8220;free&#8221; is degraded.</p>
<p>It is important to surround yourself with people that are genuinely and sincerely interested in each other, a mutual investment.  You know, making every difference make a difference&#8230;I like sharing, but in life there are those that you can only try to reach and then you have to accept that they are ok with their situation&#8230;</p>
<p>For example:</p>
<p>I met a person in my past that was extremely passionate about people and learning about them and their surroundings.  They had great drive, great confidence, and great ability to make things happen.  I always found this person interesting because of their perspectives and principles on and about life.  But as life does, there were some situations that tested their ability to be honest, happy, and fulfilled.  I the Guru, gave advice, gave support, and even gave a shoulder to cry on.  You would think they would have understood the value of what presented itself to them?  No, this viscous cycle continued well on into other aspects of their life, seeping into the things that made them tick as that once honest, happy, and fulfilled person I highly respected.  It was not that I didn&#8217;t respect them for who they were, but more for what they became.  And to think that this person continues this cycle with the people, places, and things they so call love&#8230;</p>
<p>Arigato,<br />
Sensei</p>
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		<title>By: GuruOfBalancedHappiness</title>
		<link>http://okdork.com/2006/10/25/the-paycheck-vs-the-life/comment-page-1/#comment-12946</link>
		<dc:creator>GuruOfBalancedHappiness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Oct 2006 04:15:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh Noah, I only communicate with people that are genuinely and sincerely interested in what I have to say.  You know, making every difference make a difference...I like sharing, but young one, in life there are those that you can only try to reach and then you have to accept that they are ok with their situation...For example:

I met a person in my past that was extremely passionate about people and learning about them and their surroundings.  They had great drive, great confidence, and great ability to make things happen.  I always found this person interesting because of their perspectives and principles on and about life.  But as life does, there were some situations that tested their ability to be honest, happy, and fulfilled.  I the Guru, gave advice, gave support, and even gave a shoulder to cry on.  You would think they would have understood the value of what presented itself to them?  No, this viscous cycle continued well on into other aspects of their life, seeping into the things that made them tick as that once honest, happy, and fulfilled person I highly respected.  It was not that I didn&#039;t respect them for who they were, but more for what they became.  And to think that this person continues this cycle with the people, places, and things they so call love...

Namaste
- Guru</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh Noah, I only communicate with people that are genuinely and sincerely interested in what I have to say.  You know, making every difference make a difference&#8230;I like sharing, but young one, in life there are those that you can only try to reach and then you have to accept that they are ok with their situation&#8230;For example:</p>
<p>I met a person in my past that was extremely passionate about people and learning about them and their surroundings.  They had great drive, great confidence, and great ability to make things happen.  I always found this person interesting because of their perspectives and principles on and about life.  But as life does, there were some situations that tested their ability to be honest, happy, and fulfilled.  I the Guru, gave advice, gave support, and even gave a shoulder to cry on.  You would think they would have understood the value of what presented itself to them?  No, this viscous cycle continued well on into other aspects of their life, seeping into the things that made them tick as that once honest, happy, and fulfilled person I highly respected.  It was not that I didn&#8217;t respect them for who they were, but more for what they became.  And to think that this person continues this cycle with the people, places, and things they so call love&#8230;</p>
<p>Namaste<br />
- Guru</p>
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		<title>By: Noah Kagan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Noah Kagan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Oct 2006 22:46:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh Guru. Seriously would you be interested in writing some posts about this that I can share with the readers?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh Guru. Seriously would you be interested in writing some posts about this that I can share with the readers?</p>
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